What does compassionate care actually look like?
I’m reminded of a really wonderful oncology nurse who is able to practice this art in a way that empowers people. She shares her own experience with breast cancer and connects with patients by sitting them down, offering a hand, and saying, “We’ll get through this together.” Her story is powerful because it shows how we can enhance that patient-practitioner connection to reduce fear, increase positive expectation and facilitate hope. When a woman is faced with a cancer, having a confident, kind person who has concurred this journey at your side providing compassionate support can make a significant difference. And if that person uses the following tools, the effects can be enhanced.
There’s an acronym – “PEECE” – to remember the essential ingredients that research has shown to enhance the effects of compassionate care:
Positive Prognosis
Education
Empowerment
Connection
Empathy
The care and intention behind the healer isn’t just one part of the equation — it’s the whole ceremony — one that requires trust. One of the best representations for trust I have seen is:
Trust = Competency x Intimacy / Degree of Risk
For someone dispensing acupuncture to a patient, for instance, you can’t just know where to place the acupuncture needles, you have to be well-trained in the art of acupuncture which is competency. Intimacy means you connect with that other human being in a meaningful way.
We looked at this in the short-term in a study where we randomly assigned patients who came into the doctor for the common cold to two groups – one with a standard physician visit and the other an “enhanced” physician visit where the doctor displayed more empathetic behavior, including listening and showing concern as patients told their full story and found ways to empower them to take control over their care. We found that patients who received care from the more empathetic doctors had less severe symptoms that lasted for a shorter period of time. This really suggests that the quality of the care can affect the patients’ outcomes.
For minor conditions like earaches, your body will probably heal itself whether you have a compassionate connection or not. But if you have an autoimmune disease with recurring headaches, the competency of your doctor multiplied by the intimacy you feel with them as another human being has a bigger impact, so it’s even more important. As a doctor, I think trust is very important and can even make you more effective.
When you get to know the person who has the disease, you’re less fearful of the disease and you’re more likely to make an accurate diagnosis. There is less need to order more tests or medicines because fear is reduced when two people come together through a dialogue that explores meaning. This gives both energy and the healing goes both ways.